I was talking to Preeti Agnani(a dear friend)and we were talking about relationships and how they blossom and how they end in an instant and one thing lead to another and we came on the topic why are women so complicated my favorite topic in the world......lol...And how women behave when she knows a guy really likes her and is trying to please her and make her feel special.........And to my surprise .......She said that when this happens most of the women knowing that they would get the importance neglect the guy or take him for granted......and i was like What the F**K!!!!ya even I was surprised!!!!!!! So just to dig deeper into a woman's 'Psyche' which for convenience sake we would refer to as the 'BLACK HOLE' henceforth ,as the mind of a woman has never been understood and it still remains a mystery to this day even after centuries of research!!!!!!!!Even Dr. Sigmund Freud would agree on this........lol.....May his soul R.I.P.
Coming to think of it, it's very true...........All guyz if they sit back and think over it would realize that it is 100% true........And might even think that's so freakin manipulative.......But that isn't true .....Women like we all know are a different kind of species and they are just built with such a mechanism....... and believe me it’s not even close to manipulative, it’s just the way the Black hole functions.
After a lot of thought and seeing my friends and their past relationships and also present ones and the ever so happening Rizvi college...lol (fyi including me) realized that ya women actually do that ....I don’t know why but its true and there is also a fact that the very same women would fall for the same guy if he had started the whole thing by ignoring her or probably even flirting with other women in front of her. Why are women so complicated????????*again Richard what a stupid question*
Alright to be fair to women guyz aren't that figured out either....A friend of mine who has been in a relationship for 5 years just broke up with his girlfriend and believe you me this guy really really loves this girl and he will do everything it takes to get back with her.... but he is just not ready to accept the fact that he should move on in life, he is still stuck to this girl and how??????? I say why????? okay you love this girl and you think she is perfect and all but you can’t stop living your life and enjoying it.......Someone just told me once "IF IT'S MEANT TO BE WE WILL LAND UP TOGETHER" that's what i think is so freakin true........You just can't persuade someone to get back together or for that matter love you. If it is really meant to be he/she would land up with you no matter what.....Instead of thinkin over it like forever!!!! and to stop living your life the way you used to is so stupid!!!!!!!. I say rather go out meet new people, find new gourmet places,taste new wines ,go for a drive, see new places, explore the world, read and if you smoke up roll a joint, just tryin to relate to all the masses...lol.... ya do what you like doin,the world is your oyster!!!!!!!!!! This implies to both guys and girls instead of sulking over your ex bf/gf or over someone you really liked, go out meet your friends, socialize(probably there is someone better)have a drink ,read a book ,get into a hobby ,if need be call me i will be game for anything..........But people move on enjoy life, see the beautiful side of it, it’s just way too short for you to be cribbing and racking your brains over what I need to do or what i should have done...Let bygones be bygones if he/she dint realize how you felt for them it’s much better that they were not a part of our life.............If you can do so much for the one you love you can at least do a small favor for the most important person in the world..............That's YOURSELF!!!! Do it for yourself...how can anyone be can so important that you forget yourself and put yourself through so much pain for a person who is not wrong on their part but they just don’t realize or they just don’t have such feelings for you...(it’s not their fault)............Oka okay I just got too emotional there........This is for everyone out there who has any such feelings..... Give me three more days and we will party for a week and get this done and dusted with!!!!!!!!!!!!!No more sulking ,no more listening to 'Tera Hone laga hu'(if that is what you were listening to, coz at one point I was...lol)no more tagging romantic I miss you type songs on Facebook………No more sad or hinting statues that I miss you……….From now on let the good times flow, let the party begin from Blue octane to CafĂ© Churchill…....drives from marine drive to lonavala.....From cigarettes to sheesha,from beer to tequila shots……….lets party like crazy for a week……… even I would love to do that.* hidden interests…… even I need to clear out my head you know of a few things .Even I am not perfect !!!Damn ;-)*
Finally just hope you all get what youl want ,without going through such complications .And ya I know love is a beautiful feeling . I really hope you all get it unlike a lot of those who don’t get to be with the one they love………………God Bless!!!!!!!!!! And ya no matter how hard you try to persuade me the flood gates will only open on ‘EASTER’
Thursday, April 1, 2010
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